does he love me?

three days ago, i was watching this one korean variety show
no, not running man...duh
it's called hello counselor
basically, the host plays the part where he/she will try to tackle and resolve any kind of problem that we may have
and this episode that i'm watching is about a housewife who has been married to her husband for 45 years
yes, 45 years? can you just imagine?
it was an arranged marriage by the way
and her problem is that, she doesn't know if her husband love her or not
erk?
like really really love her, even after this 45 years of marriage

for their very first date, they just listen to radio and then go home (ridiculous right?)
they don't hold hand while dating
they don't praise each other
they don't talk much
they don't kiss (errr... but they are blessed with 2 daughters and a son tho..hehe)
and there's this one time while she was painting the wall at her house (she's petite so she needs to stand on the chair in order to reach the high places), and about to fall down, her husband just watch her falling

OMG! what kind of husband is he???
i'd be suffering from depression if my husband is like this
she even asked for a divorce at her 44th year of marriage (of course, not wholeheartedly, but still...)

well, it turns out that her husband didn't really know how to show or express her love for her
he's emotionless, so to speak
but he did told them that he love his wife very much, which bring tears to his cute old wifey
oh, thank god!!!

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to me, sometimes in marriage, a small, sweet gestures is all you need
like my husband yesterday
he was dropping me off to office after lunch, and suddenly he whispered 'I LOVE YOU' to me
i am melting ok, because knowing my husband it will be like a million years for me to hear that kind of words from him